Most couples can mediate their divorce if they set their minds to it. When the reality of the expense and frustration of litigation sets in, many couples resort to mediation as an alternative. Determining whether mediation will work in your case will depend on several factors. As a preliminary matter, communication and the willingness to work together is key. If you and your spouse are ready, willing and able to discuss the issues in your case in an amicable manner then you are good candidates for mediation. If communication is an ongoing problem in your marriage then mediation is not out of the question, however you and your spouse must be able to work well with the mediator. In certain cases mediation is not advised. Every couple's situation is different so it is important to discuss your marriage with the mediator during the initial consultation. The mediator will let you know whether the mediation will be beneficial in your case. In general, 8 out of 10 couples will be able to mediate their divorce if they are both willing to try.
The following comparisons should be used as a general guide. Some couples who have traits from both categories may still be able to mediate with appropriate safeguards in place.